What 2016 have taught me...

1.Never judge a person by their actions or their appearance. Being judgmental is so not cool.
People have their own reasons to act like they do. Accept them as they are, understand their situation, and put yourself in their shoes. The judgement that you have will fade once you'll get a full scope in their stories. :)

2.Ask, don't assume. Assumptions is not 100% true. Verify your assumptions please.

3.Running away from your problems would not solve anything. Face your problems heads on!

4.A simple act of kindness will make someone's day. Compliment someone, smile to strangers, help the elders, there a wholee lot more things that you can do for this and once you've done this act of kindness, you'll feel like you have achieved something in a day. When i tried, it actually helps me to go through my rough days, it boost my productivity most of the time.

5.Be good to your body. Love yourself. Take care of yourself.
Occasionally do a health check, go to spas, pedicure, manicure, and salloon  wont hurt you.

6. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Blaming yourself in your mistakes will demotivate you... everyone makes mistakes,right?
Mistake is a learning process. Give yourself credits.

7. Giving feels a lot better than receiving. Trust me. Its like being Santa.

8.If you think you have a fucked up life or you're in a deep shit, always remember that there are people out there are struggling every second to have a sip of water.

9.Be grateful, don't complaint and contemplate life.
 The world is a mean place, you'll be trampled down and dragged in a pit's of hell if you go on and 247 contemplating life as it goes - while other striving their way up.

10. Money is good but it will not guarantee your lifelong happiness - it will runs out eventually.

11.Family is important, no matter how complicated your family is.
They are your blood. Even if they wanna run away and break their bonds with you, they can never will. Deal with it.

12. Don't put your utmost hopes and expectations to people, you'll get hurt if they don't match to your hopes and expectations.
Avoid hoping, start doing things yourself if you can.

13. Friends come and go, true friends even without communications,will be there.
Find that one or two diamonds in your life, keep them well.

14. Kids are awesome, they give free hugs and kisses.
So as babies, they are cute - except when they are pooping. (ugh)

15.Appreciate the people that are there for you, who makes time for you and who would go the extra miles for you.
Always remember the one who lifted you up when you feel like dying, who listened to your never-ending rants and complaints and be there for you still.

16. Be positive. Bad thoughts will only screw you up.
KILL those negative vibes awayyyyy!

17.Thinking is good - OVERTHINKING will kill you.

18.Financial management is very very very very extremely important,manage your money well or screw you. Remember to set aside a part of everything - savings, commitment and entertainment.

19. Debts are a huge NO - especially credit cards. Do not get involve. I repeat, DO NOT GET INVOLVE.!! Backout!Abort mission.

20. Always keep in mind that anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.
As the saying, we will never know what future hold, and we could not plan when that we can have our misfortunes. Best is, plan ahead. Do a simple risk analysis everyday, minimize the greater risk.

That's all from me for now.

Have a great year ahead!