Perempuan vs Lelaki, my point of view.

okay, aku ada terbaca satu post about Perempuan vs Lelaki and sebenarnya aku nak comment je pasal post ni, maybe sebab aku ada sikit terasa and maybe sebab aku nak share apa perempuan rasa bila benda benda macam ni jadi kat dalam relationship

I'm writing this from my point of view. Sorry la kalau ada yang tak setuju dengan p.o.v saya ye. =)

One thing about a girl is guys should know that Girls are full of insecurities. Kat dalam otak perempuan ni macam macam lingers and by saying macam macam it means the worst thoughts about something, so every tiny things that the guy do counts for her (if she really do care about him). For an example, the futsal case, kalao bf tu dah habis futsal supposedly, he text his gf and tell her that he's home so that the girl wouldn't worry. maybe the girl texted the guy hundreds time cause she's scared something might happen to her bf. Malang tak berbau, so we might not know what will happen on the way si bf going home kan? but the whole posting at Facebook and Twitter thing, I think the person that is doing that have no sense of privacy of her relationship sbb dia sanggup nak advertise whats going on in her relationship to everyone (no offense girls) and maybe she was mad,cause she stays up untill 2am just to wait for the bf, but when she waits, there are no news from the bf. We cant blame her for everything that she post while being angry, you know that angry people can't think straight right? Someone once said to me that it's good being angry at someone cause knowing that the person that is being angry at us means they still care. =)

In this case. tak perlu tanya siapa yang patut dipersalahkan sebab dah terang terang dua dua pihak salah. the girl, for texting too much and not being understanding. and the guy, for not informing the girl that he's home. but they choses the path themselves, so blame theirselves la. 

When talking about relationships, macam u  penah mention lah in The Desire to have Family. Better not commit when you're studying, it will be a waste of time and money. Tapi kalau dah tercommit nak buat macam mana kan? takkan nak turn back the clock and reverse time pulak. hehe. well my point is, kalau dah in relationship tu, both have to know their role. Benda benda macam jealousy, misunderstandings tu normal la kan, the thing that matters most is they love each other whole heartedly and i'm sure if they do, they can resolve everything themselves without hurting others. And they will be happy ever after yawww. Hee

Apa apa pon, i think everyone have their own principles for resolving things and attitude that reacts to a certain situation. Whether its positive or negative, the person that commit to have a relationship should try to come clean about what they thing is bad for their relationship and work on a solution to maintain the relationship. 

Puas sudah ku menulis. Au Revoir~